Hello, third trimester!
(and hello, Christmas boots!)
We just started Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University class at our church last night, and we watched a session where Ramsey talks about the differences in shopping styles between men and women. He said that men go straight to what they want and negotiate for it, while women hunt around for the best deal. I laughed at this, because I have been hunting for what feels like AGES for the 'perfect' baby bedding. I'm sure if you looked at what I picked, you'd be rather unimpressed, but I have certain hopes and dreams for this little space and this little set seems to reflect that. I'm also hoping to make my own crib skirt so that we can adjust it to hide whatever we store under the crib, but I'm leaving the rest to Pottery Barn. :)
After finally picking the all-important room scheme, I had to get cracking on the old Target baby registry. Oh, my. For such little things, they need a lot of stuff. I've been talking to some varsity moms about what gear is best and slowly building a list. Because I have some other friends who are approaching this stage as well, I thought I'd share some resources:
A spreadsheet of recommended baby items
A list of everything used by one mom in the first two months
I don't actually know the girls who wrote these up but I do appreciate the ideas and thought others might, too. I am still trying to get a handle on what we need and what is not necessary. Our baby room is tiny and I don't want to be left with swings and bouncers and walkers strewn about the house! Thankfully a friend here will lend us some of those items as we need them. I still have to measure to see what kind of storage bins and containers we want, but I was loving my time in the basket aisle of Target today!


4 comments:
Hey - this is helpful...as was your target registry. :) I have some things, and had my parents bring a car seat (one that goes from infancy to toddler - I didn't want to pay for two seats or get two seats delivered here! I'm not in nesting mode just yet. More pics of the room - and you. Oh and enjoy FPU. We've listened to the cds, but not done the work...
As a mom of two, I'll give you my two-cents…
I'd say skip buying swings, jumpers, etc. & borrow if possible… or buy used. They go through them REALLY fast, and although valuable in the beginning, aren't worth the price tag. Also, you don't need a crib & a bassinet & a pack'n'play. We bought a convertible crib to 'grow' with the kids & then doubled the pack'n'play as a bassinet… it worked great.
Something I couldn't live without are Aden & Anais swaddling blankets. They are by far the best & worth the extra money. They breath well, are HUGE, and are useful for more than swaddling. I swaddled both kids until they were about 9 months & I swear by it. It really helped them calm & both slept well earlier than their peers.
Also, I really like having a body carrier of some sort. There are tons on the market, so you just need to figure out what works for you, but we had both a Bjorn & a sling & used them daily through the first year. (I still occasionally use the sling now with the 13 month old… but he doesn't like to be contained for too long!)
Oh… and you don't need nearly as many clothes as you think.
Yes they're cute, yes you really want to buy them, but try to restrain yourself as much as possible. When packing up my first's clothes I was amazed at how many outfits she'd grown out of that were never worn; they still had the price tags on. (I did re-use them as baby gifts, though, so that was good!)
There you go…
I'm so excited for you! Mommyhood is intensely rewarding (& also trying… but the rewarding part wins out!) You're gonna be a great mom!
Jenni (Meg's sister) ;)
Erica,
I agree with the other comments, especially about borrowing things like swings, bouncers, etc. Some babies LOVE them and you can't live without them, but some don't! I don't know if you are planning on nursing, but there was one purchase that helped me so much, but the name makes me giggle. I bought a nursing pillow called..."My Breast Friend." Yes, that's the name. It was SOOOO much better than a Boppy pillow, which was useless for me. I think they have a web-site. Seriously, best baby purchase. By the way, boys are the BEST! :-) Tracye
P.S. When can we see the bedding?
Hi Erica!
now I don't have a baby so I don't have any personal advice to give but a friend of mine had her first born about a year ago and started a blog for new mom which you may fine helpful: http://bumpstobabes.blogspot.com/
It's quite informative i think.
much love
Lands
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